tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post6454815661934203258..comments2024-02-20T13:26:39.833-05:00Comments on Daily Inspiration - Daily Quotes: Stop Anger Before It Stops You - 7 Secrets - jonathan lockwood huieUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-60478844324332981622020-12-17T01:43:00.726-05:002020-12-17T01:43:00.726-05:00Forgiveness is worlds problem and cannot be solve ...Forgiveness is worlds problem and cannot be solve by writing. Hate is fleshly power control by human's mind, while forgiveness is power of Human's Spirit. We all agree that every human is flesh and Spirit working together as a team where one is leader and other is follower. Spirit is master and flesh is follower. Living that way there will be no anger and there will be no need for forgiveness. As retired MD I do believe that prevention is best remedy to treat every problem. Dragan P. Bogunovichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08415412963723715297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-89866050860284354332019-10-10T11:15:22.608-04:002019-10-10T11:15:22.608-04:00I applaud the work of Alcoholic Anonymous.
Anger i...I applaud the work of Alcoholic Anonymous.<br />Anger is not a choice, it is a strong and very harmful impulse, like uncontrolled drinking, that can only be controlled by daily conscious effort. As fighting the urge to drink is a lifelong effort for an alcoholic, fighting anger requires a lifelong effort by a person who is prone to anger.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400161716445466746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-15504542209770606932019-10-09T22:40:17.010-04:002019-10-09T22:40:17.010-04:00I managed to overcome my Anger by practicing the 1...I managed to overcome my Anger by practicing the 12 Steps programme of Alcoholic Anonymous on a daily basis.<br /><br />"I believe a person gets angry just to hide his/her weakness."pawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10405526153124280814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-30796909979429094512019-03-18T15:16:15.879-04:002019-03-18T15:16:15.879-04:00Dear Anonymous, believe it or not, I can truly rel...Dear Anonymous, believe it or not, I can truly relate. I found a few ways for myself if I may share.<br />1. I realized my anger way showing me I did not have closer with this person because they had passed and the anger was eating me up.<br /><br />As I sought perfessional help to help me talk about my anger, I was hooked up with a tool called "HeartMath", I also figured how to write this person sometimes over and over until I could see I was letting that anger go, even though it took me baby sets, I started. I sometimes felt ashamed even in writing. I didn't want anyone to know I had this much anger even towards someone passed, but I did. As I kept working on this situration I started seeing a different side of this person, and helped me to considered their human part. I hope this may help, and it really does/ did help me in seeking a therapist that let me figure out how to combat this problem and supported me through it. I hope this helps. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07576272138253417213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-85712105210907957812018-10-12T08:38:11.051-04:002018-10-12T08:38:11.051-04:00Since the brain's natural mechanism to respond...Since the brain's natural mechanism to respond to anger or any situations where expectations or failures are experienced against one's perceptions to react in anger which is in your control than being controlled by anger.brayhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13134691644788266819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-92056574630717481262018-09-01T05:52:10.827-04:002018-09-01T05:52:10.827-04:00Humans are born by nature blessed with empathy.
...<br /> Humans are born by nature blessed with empathy.<br /> <br />We, as a parent gives the baby the following essentials which are changeable as the baby grow to make his own decisions or continue.<br /><br /> -Name is given<br /> -Clothing is given<br /> -Language is given <br /><br />Now the parenting part.<br /><br />Fundamental essentials of karma being taught by parents and use remains beyond human understanding<br /> academic institutions according to his growth or our great ancestor's teachings, (not preachings) because the baby was never brought with segregations without any label as the human race is the<br /><br />Do we still have to give a label to our newborns and continue to divide the humanity by realizations all universe is governed by cosmic laws of karma and Infinite the power of creations of the universe which remains beyond human understanding<br />brayhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13134691644788266819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-58852958488044244682017-06-06T01:18:06.585-04:002017-06-06T01:18:06.585-04:00Anger is a negative emotions and with so much hatr...Anger is a negative emotions and with so much hatred and anger in the world today it only leads to devastation - and that includes destroying one self in the process - faced anger over the past 24 hours and realised that I was more angry at myself for allowing myself to put myself into a situation where responses could lead to someone else's anger on a face book site - learnt - remove one self from situations that can inflame anger - because when a person attacks and abuses another because of their own anger - they need to step back and take time out to reflect on their own inner anger - and I hope the situation I am referring to in my mind - those persons displaying such anger - realise it is their own hopelessness they need to reflect on within one self <br />Independent Regional Mothershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13994130091599041807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-63164096368523055222014-04-17T21:44:55.849-04:002014-04-17T21:44:55.849-04:00I have always been slow to anger. I can be extrem...I have always been slow to anger. I can be extremely patient, and I will always patiently explain my position regarding what I do and don't like. Plus, I think for many years, I believed anger was bad and I felt soooo guilty about feelings of anger that I just tried to swallow my anger quickly and move on. Many people I believe took that as a weakness and take advantage. But I am no doormat and I will get angry not very often but I do hit my limit. Funny thing is that when I do get angry people are usually shocked and scared I believe. I don't do anything scary but I do something out of the ordinary; I get angry and yell. Maybe my face is scary because they usually look SHOCKED! They are usually so shocked they stop and open their mouth and stare mouth working like a goldfish gasping for air, like they have never seen such a thing before in their lives; me yelling. And that has happened with different individuals that I have gotten angry with. And then they close their mouths and a concerned expression start to cross their face and then the questions starts. Is something wrong? Are you o.k. This is not like you? And then I think to myself. This is not like me. Am I not human. Geez really. I am not suppose to get angry or run out of patience. Like never. Everyone else can get angry but I cannot? I guess they were beginning to think that I was a robot. :-) As I get older I realize that swallowing anger is not good for you. Anger is not a bad thing. It is ok to get angry. You are human. You will get angry. It is ok to feel anger. Don't feel guilt when you get angry; acknowledge it and be kind to yourself. What matters and is most important is how you deal with anger? Acknowledge your anger, get away from the situation that is making you angry, run if you have to.LOL Go someplace you like or do something that makes you happy and then after you decompress take a look at what is making you angry and where that anger is coming from. Get help if you have to and go and talk to someone, and then work at being strong, positive and healthy so that you can wisely pick great people to be part of your inner circle and so that you not only infuse yourself with love and positivity, but those around you as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-65787163582613109462014-04-16T11:59:12.008-04:002014-04-16T11:59:12.008-04:00Jonathan - your words of wisdom are such a great s...Jonathan - your words of wisdom are such a great source of support for others (and myself) when life throws those 'curveballs' in our path. Whether that's emotional upsets in our work, professional or personal life, reading your daily inspirations always puts things into perspective - and what we are experiencing is not so 'unique' and there others who have been through the same experiences. Allowing the passing of time also helps to soften the blow of the things that cause us to feel negative, and the key really is staying positive mentally in order to manifest better things in our life. Thank you for your time and energy every day. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-12460539176647875042014-02-02T22:39:53.033-05:002014-02-02T22:39:53.033-05:00Responding to "How do you let go of anger ......Responding to "How do you let go of anger ... and also protect your child from the abuser?"...<br />1. Get yourself and your children far away from harms way.<br />2. After you have gotten yourself safely away from danger, you can begin let go of your anger. Understand that your "significant other" is likely mentally ill, and may have also suffered abuse as a child. Appreciate that you are finally free. Take a deep breath. Light a candle. Let some of the anger go up with the smoke from the candle. Repeat releasing the anger every day.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400161716445466746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-91500293781382963972014-02-02T22:15:54.138-05:002014-02-02T22:15:54.138-05:00How do you let go of anger of your significant oth...How do you let go of anger of your significant other who physically abused your child? and also protect your child from the abuser?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-32601670471945647532013-04-28T11:20:33.144-04:002013-04-28T11:20:33.144-04:00All feelings including anger is a need for forgive...All feelings including anger is a need for forgiveness. Forgiveness for yourself. If angered at someone forgive them ASAP with real honesty and forgive yourself for letting that person have that control to cause feelings in you that are not joyful. No one has the power or authority to make you feel anything but happy. Forgive yourself for being angry for life is too short to be anything but happy. Don't lose out on seeing the sky being blue or hear the laughter of children because of being angry. This a lesson I need to take to heart myself. I'm angry at someone and I need to let it go. Jesus said be slow to anger. He knew how being angry is unhealthy for our bodies and emotional feelings. Not good at all. Thank you for the seven steps. I will take them to ♥Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-36523126183830993942013-04-11T15:06:06.132-04:002013-04-11T15:06:06.132-04:00Great post on anger,this have been my biggest prob...Great post on anger,this have been my biggest problem for some time,and the reason,there can be many "triggers" and what works for me best is to try to get out as soon as possible for a short walk and be just by myself,where I can reflect and THINK,where did I "fail",and in most of the cases I find out that I have overreacted on something that really did not have nothing to do with me,the wisdom is to try to keep calm and LISTEN more to other person,so you really understand what they are trying to communicate to you,be more patient and LISTEN to the other person and pay ATTENTION what they are saying and you will give them the best gift anyone can give them,you show them that you CARE!Ivan<br />www.homebiztruths.infoIvanhttp://www.homebiztruths.infonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-16397613488352834272012-04-03T04:05:26.572-04:002012-04-03T04:05:26.572-04:00Thank you, i realy love all your qoutes,its open ...Thank you, i realy love all your qoutes,its open our hearts and to learn and understand what life needs to be accept day by day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-63996567529968980072012-03-21T15:08:49.670-04:002012-03-21T15:08:49.670-04:00Life is so unfair........still i love it the way i...Life is so unfair........still i love it the way it is......... ;)................stay blessed everybodyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-63089146874134683392011-11-30T07:46:19.238-05:002011-11-30T07:46:19.238-05:00Its easy to say that accept what life throws at yo...Its easy to say that accept what life throws at you but how to really do this? When you take a task at hand it is with an expectation that you will come out with flying colors and of course you will terrible when things don't go your way. You had put in efforts so that things could go your way, you can extract from life what you want. Otherwise why would anyone put any efforts?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-45935617209513727882011-08-25T15:28:37.049-04:002011-08-25T15:28:37.049-04:00My son is so angry and I know that he needs to tal...My son is so angry and I know that he needs to talk to someone. Iam so afraid for himAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-73559804595768140382011-04-26T10:48:35.229-04:002011-04-26T10:48:35.229-04:00Forgiveness is for yourself - so you can let go of...Forgiveness is for yourself - so you can let go of the anger and hatred.<br /><br />See http://www.mind4joy.com/2011/04/how-to-forgive-and-move-on.htmlJonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400161716445466746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-77353240368427985622011-04-26T03:25:05.368-04:002011-04-26T03:25:05.368-04:00i have resentment on some one hats already dead an...i have resentment on some one hats already dead and need advice on how to let go cause im taking it out on people i love and one who i would do anything 4 and its hurting her and i very much plz i need some good advice i need to let this go now im desperate please helpAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-78027601062774954222011-03-16T10:48:43.799-04:002011-03-16T10:48:43.799-04:00Thank you JLK...I have been angry for way too long...Thank you JLK...I have been angry for way too long. I have real reasons to feel this way, but I like the practical ways you propose to transform this feeling into something else: acceptance (a boundary, I just remembered), action, practice in being a compassionate, humble person. I REALLY needed this advice today. Just in time to change course!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-923264976406167132010-03-20T07:42:27.974-04:002010-03-20T07:42:27.974-04:00When I get angry, I like to take a moment to think...When I get angry, I like to take a moment to think about why I'm angry, who I'm angry at, but *most* importantly, What do I want to do with this situation? WHAT DO I WANT TO SEE HAPPEN? And then I try to focus on getting to the outcome. It doesn't always work (ie. when I am *furious*), but it does help give some direction to my anger.Lianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-51550096095187890002009-12-07T00:43:04.935-05:002009-12-07T00:43:04.935-05:00Simple and yet enlightening post. I certainly like...Simple and yet enlightening post. I certainly like the fact that we are in charge. Anger is such a negative emotion that strained us of our energy. Either we are back in control of ourselves or everything can get out of hand. I have always remembered and tried to use the breathing to control myself when I am angry and it works quite well at time although I may not always be successful in using it. Practice makes better and one day I can be totally in charge of it and not the other way round.BKhttp://www.symphonyoflove.net/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-3714067813558014672009-09-28T23:05:48.104-04:002009-09-28T23:05:48.104-04:00This is a little different path to travel away fro...This is a little different path to travel away from "anger": There used to be a saying for women who are angry with their husbands. <br /> "WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY, GO OUT AND BUY A HAT."<br />And you know what? It works!! Oh you don't have to buy a hat. But you can buy something for $2.00, such as a tiny candy piece, and it works, also. Just a thought. Seesee<br />P.s. Johnathan, I still like your ways better, though. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-66858370610724638652009-09-18T10:40:18.984-04:002009-09-18T10:40:18.984-04:00Anonymous...get alone: Great point, thank you.Anonymous...get alone: Great point, thank you.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400161716445466746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-82466957846950251292009-09-18T07:59:15.766-04:002009-09-18T07:59:15.766-04:00Anger sometimes requires one to get alone, and thi...Anger sometimes requires one to get alone, and think to defuse the anger. I literally took myself out of a situation, didn't answer my phone to the individual, didn't answer my door, all of this to give time and space to think from a quieter place. During this time I took baby steps in letting go of the anger, and feeling the joy of being in control of my emotions in a healthier way..I used this time to let go of the anger...choosing joy..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com