tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post3133489751186876246..comments2024-02-20T13:26:39.833-05:00Comments on Daily Inspiration - Daily Quotes: Why I Choose to Believe that Others are Never the Cause of My UnhappinessUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-91844635627171609382018-10-08T15:57:43.048-04:002018-10-08T15:57:43.048-04:00Choosing not to blame others is VERY hard. Choosin...Choosing not to blame others is VERY hard. Choosing to forgive is VERY hard. Make a daily exercise of forgoing blame and of forgiving. Don't expect it to stick long, but just keep doing another tiny bit of the work each day.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400161716445466746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-61741961877878837682018-10-08T14:57:19.107-04:002018-10-08T14:57:19.107-04:00I agree also but must say that this may not be as ...I agree also but must say that this may not be as easy for a traumatized person, e.g. having been abused as a child. Such a person's understanding of self and the lack of keeping boundaries will provide an extra barrier to self-differentiation and the ability to evaluate one's worth. I do however, full agree that forgiveness is the key. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-54159474793184907702018-01-29T08:15:33.932-05:002018-01-29T08:15:33.932-05:002 be happy. Do what U like & like what U do. ...2 be happy. Do what U like & like what U do. Some say to find happiness, look under the "H's" in the dictionary. No short cuts. <br />Look in the mirror,that is your answer. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05412801169848834039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-36640769032561872562013-01-28T04:55:15.996-05:002013-01-28T04:55:15.996-05:00thank you for giving me the strength and courage t...thank you for giving me the strength and courage to face nuisances that block my happiness. i am just too afraid or become a slave to these circumstances which affects my well being and morale. i will take it in stride, as a grain of salt, so to speak. i must be strong to stand for the person that i am.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-46648065970148107022011-07-24T08:38:35.605-04:002011-07-24T08:38:35.605-04:00So very true in all situations. It all boils down ...So very true in all situations. It all boils down to RESPONSIBILITY....taking responsibility for our selves. This does not mean we are completely self sufficient and will never depend on another. It means we have an ATTITUDE of self sufficiency....true in relationships and also in the economic society. Blaming others for our own attitude is a waste of precious time and energy....he who anger you, controls you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-88555144159173776222011-06-29T01:35:37.382-04:002011-06-29T01:35:37.382-04:00@anonymous September 6, 2009 1:07 PM "and i ...@anonymous September 6, 2009 1:07 PM "and i am soo lucky to have a peson in mi life who is always willing to spend their time in making me happy..and it is none other than my brother..and he ALWAYS makes me happy eveytime i sad"<br />You are so fortunate to have such a brother... looka after him!<br />kevenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-29072159944650962122010-05-26T02:19:29.703-04:002010-05-26T02:19:29.703-04:00I agree with you Mr Jonathon Lockwood Huie it'...I agree with you Mr Jonathon Lockwood Huie it's wrong to let others dictate your feelings...I couldn't agree more.<br /><br />Thank-you<br />ShriyaShriyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-6243674252598373132009-11-20T20:53:18.301-05:002009-11-20T20:53:18.301-05:00Why should we give the GREAT POWER of determining ...Why should we give the GREAT POWER of determining how we must feel, to anyone else?<br /><br />That's what we do if we let another person make<br />us mad !! SeeseeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-27072798166950214562009-09-20T21:23:00.727-04:002009-09-20T21:23:00.727-04:00I totally agree with this! I have a choice to get ...I totally agree with this! I have a choice to get irritated by others or shrug it off, accept them for who they are with no expectations and be happy about it!!!!! All though, I know I do annoy others with my optimism. But I figure a little happiness in someone's life never hurts.Anniehttp://hope42day.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-10524478649632452082009-09-20T08:28:03.667-04:002009-09-20T08:28:03.667-04:00This theory only works when u r at arms length of ...This theory only works when u r at arms length of the other... It all changes when you love aka trust... aka become vuknerable to someone. I am an extremely emotionally controlled person yet even I am reminded I of my humanity from time to time.. People can hurt you... and we can intellectualise it as much as we want but that only defers growth. Accept that other people can hurt you.. Allow yourself to feel the pain.. forgive both yourself and thereself.. grow by deciding what you will do differently next time.. heal and move on... Emotion is an innate part of being human.. If we are supposed to feel irrespective of the others around us it will only result in isolation..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-13371039723429908182009-09-19T15:21:40.183-04:002009-09-19T15:21:40.183-04:00I had a job that required me to handle complaints ...I had a job that required me to handle complaints from employees about their payroll matters. The other workers wonder what did I say to these people, they would come into my office mad, and when they left they all had a smile on their face or they would be laughing.<br /><br />I had a sign on my desk and I would say to the upset employee, make sure that you read this sign before you leave my office.'HAVE A NICE DAY UNLESS YOU HAVE MADE OTHER PLANS'. <br /><br />This made them stop and think about their actions or unactions that causes them to be upset. If they choose not to come to work they did not get a full weeks pay. If they choose did not pay their bills; garnishmet to follow.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-82378393631526535642009-09-06T13:07:50.159-04:002009-09-06T13:07:50.159-04:00actualli it not true...tht other ppl makes u unhap...actualli it not true...tht other ppl makes u unhappy..there are ppl in this world " which would kill them to see u happy " bt there are other ppl who always try to make u smile..it depends on ur frnds..on how they are going to make u life..u lead ur life..u cant blame other 4 ur unhappiness..bcos it depends on how u are taking tht matter...and i am soo lucky to have a peson in mi life who is always willing to spend their time in making me happy..and it is none other than my brother..and he ALWAYS makes me happy eveytime i sad....and so u decide ur happines..and it depends how u take tht matter and shuld never decide tht others makes u unhappyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6687416392019868806.post-9001086075170097462009-08-27T10:40:14.885-04:002009-08-27T10:40:14.885-04:00Amen!!!!I totally agree because I used to allow pe...Amen!!!!I totally agree because I used to allow people to dictate my happiness & was really unhappy when I didn't need to be. I am grateful for your insight and look forward to each day - you make me smile :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com