It's Not Personal

Don't Take Anything Personally.
Nothing others do is because of you.
What others say and do is a projection of their own reality.
- don Miguel Ruiz

If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie

You can't get mad at weather because weather's not about you.
Apply that lesson to most other aspects of life.
- Doug Coupland 

Chaos is the score upon which reality is written.
- Henry Miller

The dream you are living is your creation.
It is your perception of reality that you can change at any time.
- don Miguel Ruiz

Whatever anyone else says or does, their words
and their actions are truly about themselves.
Don't take it personally when they rant,
even if they direct their unhappiness in your direction.
Their negativity is basically selfishness,
and their selfishness is about them, not about you.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Further reading: Your Own Reality

How to Not Care What People Think about You

How to be Positive Around Negative People

Don't Take Rejection Personally